How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 26.06.2025 02:44
Hangs out with loser friends.
Does not procrastinate.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Is there a specific time frame for therapists to tell their clients they are wrong?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Procrastinates a lot.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Why do some people have sex with dogs?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
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Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Do you need goggles for red light therapy?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
How do you identify a fake whey protein gold standard?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
What are the methods used for preserving rice straw in China?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
That's it for today.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Is the Kia Tasman the ugliest ute of all time?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Can you show pictures of your penis, big or small?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Has the current political environment caused Canadians to cancel trips to the United States?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Ask yourself:
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
What I need from you?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Making more friends is a goal.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Do not set goals—set systems.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.